The Dashing Men of the Wedding Party Our best man, Howard Rosen, made an amazing toast. We loved it, as did the guests (Jennie McCarl commented later that "it's always nice to know that the bride's new husband 'melts her crayons!'"). Howard and the rest of Tom's attendants (namely Jay Friedlander, Matthew Gertzog, Keith Phillips, Dan and Matt Rotelli, Aaron Walker, and Tom Windisch) were fantastic -- they got the program together, did about a hundred random errands, took Tom to places like brew-pubs and breakfast joints when Mary was getting just a little too 'bridal,' and made all the right sorts of complimentary remarks when he got his own bow tie tied in the van on the way to Mary's house. They were also very good-natured about the picture at the bottom of this page. Thanks, guys!   These handsome gentlemen are our buddies Howard and Aaron with our ring boxes. This was one of the photographer's best ideas, in Mary's opinion.